Thought I would recommend these guys as they have a good sound. On one hand they are very mainstream and comical to a degree (not unsimilar to Type O Negative, this band list Darth Vader as someone they borrow their sound from) on the other hand they play some really solid gothic metal. Their female vocal parts are not as apparent as most gothic metal bands (Sirenia, Tristesse etc.), rather the vocal focus is on male goth rocker vocals (set apart due to the heavy german "I will eat your balls" accent).
So if you want to hear everything you have ever heard before mixed into a flavourful German soup, this is the band for you,
http://www.myspace.com/lacrimasprofundereofficial
P.S Do many people on these forums listen to the band? I would be interested to hear some other peoples opinions on their sound.