[Xorv]

Happy birthday to me, ohhh happy birthday to.....me....*cries*

anyways, I need to fill it up and expand my metal horizons.

Looking for stuff similar too:
Woods of Ypres (the demo)
Agalloach
Evergrey
Katatonia
Electric Wizard (dopethrone)
Disillusion (back to times of splendor)
Bolt Thrower
In Flames (jester race)
My Dying Bride
Pain of Salvation (perfect element 1)
Opeth (morningrise)
Rain Fell Within
Drudkh (autumn aurora)

Do not under any circumstances recommend the following:
Metallica
Glam Metal
gay power metal dragonforce like bands.
80's metal
90% of thrash metal (unless its really really good)
Mayhem