[schenkadere]

I'm a 41 year old white male living in the northern suburbs of NYC and commuting 70 miles each way, 4 days a week to my job in NJ. I am married 20 years, I have 4 boys, 17,15,7,4. I manage a digital prepress department for a large folding carton printer, making low 6 figures which is never enough. I live in a 100 year old piece of shit house...I have crappy cars.

My oldest son just graduated HS and will be attending community college for history...he has a brilliant mind for history. He does American Revolution re-enactment stuff and works at our local battlefield state park. My 7 year old is absolutely brilliant...it's weird...but he's also a giant know it all pain in the ass!

Guitar is my first love...music is my passion.

I'm a loyal friend and a generally good guy.

I'm together and solid on the outside, but a blithering mess on the inside...I see a shrink!

I'm in ok shape for my age...I fought weight issues my entire life.