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August 19th, 2007, 11:43 PM
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#1326 (permalink)
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Pizzicato Heartstrings
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: In the murky, desolate deep of my brain
Posts: 5,979
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Originally Posted by Hell Awaits Us All
this is exactly what PUA is, you idiot 
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You are a fucktard.
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I am not trying to create a false persona for myself, this would be dumb and that's not what I am about. I am trying to make improvements so I can naturally attract women I like.
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Then why don't stop treating it like you're filling a quota? Why not make improvements to yourself so PEOPLE IN GENERAL are attracted to you and you can look at yourself in a way that is not self-loathing and piteous?
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August 19th, 2007, 11:47 PM
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#1327 (permalink)
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I must burn these halls
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Wayne, MI
Posts: 6,692
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Dude, I have the shittiest personality in the world:
I am clingy, needy, lazy, shy, and pretty "pessimistic" but I've got a girlfriend and more than one girl who'd be ready and willin' to date me - if they were/I single OR lived significantly closer to me.
I'm pretty sure you're just one of those jokes that mother nature plays on some poor sole once in a while.
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Jenny Owen Youngs > metal
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August 19th, 2007, 11:50 PM
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omghaxlol!1
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Grand Haven, MI
Posts: 4,471
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Originally Posted by unknown
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Penny Arcade FTW
Dave, you need to stop looking for an "approach" or a method". This will lead to no good. As much as you do not want to hear it, being your TRUE self and not some PUA is the only way to go. I am 100% myself all the time, no matter who I am around. I am not super good looking or even in the greatest shape in the world, but I was no longer a virgin by 17 and have had a fair share of women interested in ME, not someone I am pretending to be.
I have never purposely tried to get a girl to be interested, it just happens if they like who you are. I have never made sex or girls a priority, because honestly, in the grand scheme of things, it is not that important to me. If I meet someone cool, thats great, but desperately seeking female attention is ultimately a waste of time.
You really need to continue to focus on the things that really matter. You have a successful job and will soon be attending college. These are good things, and things to be proud of. Why not focus on that? Keep doing those things, be successful at them, and be happy. Chances are if you do that, you will meet someone, and you can build a meaningful relationship based on real feelings and not on being a PUA and getting laid.
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August 19th, 2007, 11:53 PM
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#1329 (permalink)
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Banned
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Killing You
Posts: 8,154
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Originally Posted by Hatebreeder
you can look at yourself in a way that is not self-loathing and piteous?
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where in the world did you get this impression?  I am thoroughly satisfied with my life outside of this girls issue
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August 19th, 2007, 11:54 PM
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omghaxlol!1
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Grand Haven, MI
Posts: 4,471
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Obviously you are not. Did you read my above post? I am so right.
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August 19th, 2007, 11:57 PM
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Banned
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Killing You
Posts: 8,154
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Originally Posted by Evil?
Penny Arcade FTW
Dave, you need to stop looking for an "approach" or a method". This will lead to no good. As much as you do not want to hear it, being your TRUE self and not some PUA is the only way to go. I am 100% myself all the time, no matter who I am around. I am not super good looking or even in the greatest shape in the world, but I was no longer a virgin by 17 and have had a fair share of women interested in ME, not someone I am pretending to be.
I have never purposely tried to get a girl to be interested, it just happens if they like who you are. I have never made sex or girls a priority, because honestly, in the grand scheme of things, it is not that important to me. If I meet someone cool, thats great, but desperately seeking female attention is ultimately a waste of time.
You really need to continue to focus on the things that really matter. You have a successful job and will soon be attending college. These are good things, and things to be proud of. Why not focus on that? Keep doing those things, be successful at them, and be happy. Chances are if you do that, you will meet someone, and you can build a meaningful relationship based on real feelings and not on being a PUA and getting laid.
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uhhhh I am telling you I want to get laid all the fucking time with attractive girls (NO NOT BECAUSE SOCIETY WANTS ME TO, BECAUSE I FUCKING WANT TO AND THAT's ALL THAT MATTERS), and you are telling me "No it's ok, just be yourself, you might get laid 10 years down the line, you might not. it doesn't really matter"
what you are telling me is horrible advice that does nothing to help my situation
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August 19th, 2007, 11:58 PM
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Life Is Worth Losing
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: NJ, USA
Posts: 23,716
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Dave, in all honesty, I'm going to ban you for at least a day if you say one more annoying thing.
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"I don't have any beliefs or allegiances. I don't believe in this country, I don't believe in religion, or a god, and I don't believe in all these man-made institutional ideas." - George Carlin
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Originally Posted by viewer_from_nihil
why is it that every thing i love have to be ruined?
chris barnes sucks now, new COB... blah, chuck shuldiner died, Dead killed himself, and now... Gaahl is gay? damn
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August 19th, 2007, 11:59 PM
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I must burn these halls
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Wayne, MI
Posts: 6,692
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If all you want is sex all you need to do is go to the Red-light district.
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Jenny Owen Youngs > metal
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August 20th, 2007, 12:00 AM
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Banned
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Killing You
Posts: 8,154
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I really can't help but think that I am wayyyyyyyyy overanalyzing this situation. Maybe I just need to go to a fuckload of parties, get shitfaced and fuck some drunk college chicks?
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August 20th, 2007, 12:00 AM
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omghaxlol!1
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Grand Haven, MI
Posts: 4,471
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Originally Posted by Hell Awaits Us All
uhhhh I am telling you I want to get laid all the fucking time with attractive girls (NO NOT BECAUSE SOCIETY WANTS ME TO, BECAUSE I FUCKING WANT TO AND THAT's ALL THAT MATTERS), and you are telling me "No it's ok, just be yourself, you might get laid 10 years down the line, you might not. it doesn't really matter"
what you are telling me is horrible advice that does nothing to help my situation
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My advice fucking rocks you piece of shit.
If your goal is just to fuck hot bitches all the time, then fuck you you shallow ass hole. I mean, shit. You are making this big fucking deal out of wanting to be a fucking whore.
Here is some advice,
hang yourself.
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