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Old March 3rd, 2012, 04:10 PM   #8426 (permalink)
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Take care of yourself (self-improvement) and the rest generally takes care of itself. This approach has worked well for me.
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Old March 3rd, 2012, 04:13 PM   #8427 (permalink)
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Yeah well, your opinion on love and relationships is a little strange too though.
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Maybe you should re-evaluate what you really want, a fuck buddy or a woman. If you just want to fuck go get a escort like aug.
I'm pretty sure i need some kind of ongoing/reliable female companionship in my life, and i certainly don't want to spend a shitton of money doing it (unless there's some really good argument that fucking a prostitute would be worth the price for me, i.e. getting practice touching girls in a "safe" environment that i could later apply at bars/parties when trying to flirt), so i think i'm stuck in the Game for now.
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Old March 3rd, 2012, 04:34 PM   #8428 (permalink)
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unless there's some really good argument that fucking a prostitute would be worth the price for me
Free STDs with every purchase? And, if it satisfies your curiosity, the benefit of knowing what the last pack of wieners tasted like?
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Old March 3rd, 2012, 04:50 PM   #8429 (permalink)
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Aug needs to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal.
He'll be "The 40-year-old Virgin to Mutually Good Sex."
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Old March 3rd, 2012, 04:51 PM   #8430 (permalink)
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Old March 3rd, 2012, 05:25 PM   #8431 (permalink)
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What do you mean by that?

I'm pretty sure i need some kind of ongoing/reliable female companionship in my life, and i certainly don't want to spend a shitton of money doing it (unless there's some really good argument that fucking a prostitute would be worth the price for me, i.e. getting practice touching girls in a "safe" environment that i could later apply at bars/parties when trying to flirt), so i think i'm stuck in the Game for now.

ok look, u have to get out of your comfort zone to get anywhere with women. Forget the prostitutes and just head over to a bar/club and start opening up conversations with women. It's not that hard it's just a matter of saying hello how you doing/what u up to/whatever and if she shows disinterest forget about her and move on.
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Old March 3rd, 2012, 07:16 PM   #8432 (permalink)
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Yeah i just need practice making some moves and seeing how different chicks respond. I went out last night and talked to a couple girls, i'm doing it again tonight. Trying to get back into the habit of being out at night on weekends.
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Old March 3rd, 2012, 07:31 PM   #8433 (permalink)
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Generally speaking, you are going to have more luck meeting girls like yourself hanging out at venues, whether IRL or on the internet, where you like to be anyway.

Unless you just want some desperate skank pussy.
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Old March 4th, 2012, 12:08 AM   #8434 (permalink)
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Btw, I forgot to mention the best part about that chick I posted earlier:
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Fuck and yes. Although I must admit, this is about the fifth chick I've seen who's answered that question the same. I've never known many chicks who want to fuck everyday. But if this is somehow true, man o' man this is going to be interesting.
I don't even get sexless relationships. I wouldn't want to be with a chick who didn't want to fuck everyday.

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What do you mean by that?

I'm pretty sure i need some kind of ongoing/reliable female companionship in my life, and i certainly don't want to spend a shitton of money doing it (unless there's some really good argument that fucking a prostitute would be worth the price for me, i.e. getting practice touching girls in a "safe" environment that i could later apply at bars/parties when trying to flirt), so i think i'm stuck in the Game for now.
Don't go to a prostitute. It's gross. And it'd be something you'd probably have to lie about to future romantic partners.

Just keep talking to women. Not necessarily flirtatiously, just talk to them. Get comfortable with them. They'll figure out if they're interested.
Hitting the gym wouldn't hurt. It'll help your confidence and give you a conversation topic. It's amazing how much people can talk about personal fitness.
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Old March 4th, 2012, 12:23 AM   #8435 (permalink)
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Well i had a pretty unremarkable time tonight. I met up with a guy around 11pm and we went to 3 different bars. I talked to a girl briefly at one, and it wasn't awkward, but she really didn't seem interested in me, unlike the girl at the party last night -- this one politely responded to everything i said, but didn't add anything herself.

This was my first weekend in a long time where i really gave the nightlife a serious effort, so there's still a lot about it that i need to get used to. Definitely want to start earlier next weekend, cause i got a late start both yesterday and today and all the bars within walking distance were crowded and hard to start conversations in.
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Old March 4th, 2012, 12:35 AM   #8436 (permalink)
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Old March 4th, 2012, 12:57 AM   #8437 (permalink)
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the more girls u talk to the higher percentage you have of actually connecting with someone, 1 isn't enough considering that you probably live in a big city.
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Old March 4th, 2012, 01:52 AM   #8438 (permalink)
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Old March 4th, 2012, 02:55 AM   #8439 (permalink)
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you can go to 100 bars and have 1000 conversations and still come up with squat. not to mention conversing is fucking tiring; you do all the introductory shit, then try in vain to find common interests, only to realize she'd rather be somewhere else than talking to your boring ass, so then you have to start it all over again with the next bitch. fuck that, i'd rather play video games.
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Old March 4th, 2012, 03:38 AM   #8440 (permalink)
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Aug, you sound so bitter when you talk about normal women. Must've had really bad experiences? All girls aren't there to outright reject you, they'll talk to you if you show some worth. There is good in people you know.
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I mean, if you look like aug, it's hard. Especially since he doesn't seem attracted to other asians. Asian men aren't a hot commodity among other races the way asian women are.
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Old March 4th, 2012, 05:58 AM   #8442 (permalink)
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just keepin it real for zabu. yes WAIF i am aware of that. and to pre-empt Episteme's reply, yes asian guys can get white chicks but i dont want just any mediocre one (when i see an asian guy with a legit but average-to-ugly white chick i think "is that it? i don't envy you bro, lol") i want the absolute finest specimens and guaranteed sex with them.
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Grant needs to move to a real city, like Boston or Chicago.
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How did you meet her? What were you planning to do together?
Me? just hang out really. It wasn't really a date and I didn't actually leave and wait for her, she just didn't call and texted saying she'd gone home early because she was tired. It's not as bad as it sounds, I've never indicated any interest in this girl in that kind of way so she might not have even considered that I was thinking along those lines. She wasn't at a bar or club either so I don't think someone else got with her.
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just keepin it real for zabu. yes WAIF i am aware of that. and to pre-empt Episteme's reply, yes asian guys can get white chicks but i dont want just any mediocre one (when i see an asian guy with a legit but average-to-ugly white chick i think "is that it? i don't envy you bro, lol") i want the absolute finest specimens and guaranteed sex with them.
I'm not one of those "appearances don't matter" people, but to call someone "mediocre" is a bit harsh, isn't it?

Episteme's right, dude. You sound bitter. It's like something happened to make the idea of enjoying a woman's personality seem impossible to you.
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Yeah Richmond sucks, i can't wait to start traveling around in a couple months and looking for other places to move.
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I'd have to say most people tend to grow into themselves at a certain age, especially when they take the effort to look presentable by dressing nice and what not.

Aug, it really seems like you're actually incapable of even wanting to get to know someone for their personality because you're afraid of approaching a real woman. Don't you have any female colleagues? Do you speak or get along with them on a personal level? From the tone of your posts, it sounds like you've gotten rejected or played out by many girls and now you're extremely bitter about it. I find most girls tend to be more attractive or look a lot more attractive the more I get to know them.

I don't envy you Aug for having sex with some of the hottest whores I've seen. Good for you, and to each their own but you know you've hit the bottom of the barrel if you actually think that a prostitute cares and gets jealous whether you fuck her instead of another whore, as you so explained a few weeks/months ago.
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ya, IF you are a boring ass person or just are such because the girl you're trying to talk to is do damn attractive and you're concentrating on what to say next and how to impress her enough to get her to sleep with u or at least a #




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just keepin it real for zabu. yes WAIF i am aware of that. and to pre-empt Episteme's reply, yes asian guys can get white chicks but i dont want just any mediocre one (when i see an asian guy with a legit but average-to-ugly white chick i think "is that it? i don't envy you bro, lol") i want the absolute finest specimens and guaranteed sex with them.
you're not exactly a Casanova yourself so those are some pretty high standards. I just want a bitch who can't crush me during sex and can actually turn my flaccid dick into a raging boner while im sober, and no whores. Had many experiences where many a whore tried to take off my pants, but i decline whole hardheartedly not knowing what kind dirty overused snatch she hides between her legs......although I slip through the cracks sometimes if she's really hot...
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i do have a number of women friends/colleagues with whom i get along fine, after all i am very chilled and lighthearted to talk with in a normal setting, though a bit on the quiet side.

if an escort passes all primary criteria and i'm already screwing her, i -can- appreciate her personality and most are very nice and modest despite their hotness, which i almost never see in normal girls. also, i'm pretty sure they get jealous when they find out i've been with another girl; i can see the hurt in their facial expression and sense their relief when i hug and tell them they're still my favorite, lol. yea great acting etc nah i doubt it


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Me? just hang out really. It wasn't really a date and I didn't actually leave and wait for her, she just didn't call and texted saying she'd gone home early because she was tired. It's not as bad as it sounds, I've never indicated any interest in this girl in that kind of way so she might not have even considered that I was thinking along those lines. She wasn't at a bar or club either so I don't think someone else got with her.
is she czech?
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