Males and Females

[zabu of nΩd]

Well, for some people (like obviously me) there are aspects of the Game that are pretty uncomfortable and can feel like a massive amount of bullshit to deal with. There's obviously a lot of timing, patience and thinking on your feet involved with trying to hook up, it's not just a matter of being "upfront". You can't walk up to a girl and be like "Excuse me, but I find myself attracted to you, and I would like to consider you for a sexual relationship. Could we dialogue this out for a while and try to reach a decision together on whether this is in our mutual interest?" Personally i find all the subterfuge and putting on a good mating dance to be a lot of work, and i lose patience and energy rather quickly.

[King Richard]

Yeah well, your opinion on love and relationships is a little strange too though. Maybe you should re-evaluate what you really want, a fuck buddy or a woman. If you just want to fuck go get a escort like aug.

Btw, I forgot to mention the best part about that chick I posted earlier:

Once you're intimate, how often would you and your significant other have sex?

Every day
Every day
Every day
Every day
Every day
Every day
Every day

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Fuck and yes. Although I must admit, this is about the fifth chick I've seen who's answered that question the same. I've never known many chicks who want to fuck everyday. But if this is somehow true, man o' man this is going to be interesting.

[King Richard]

Also, how is it every fucking profile I look the person has graduated college or is going back to grad school and has traveled to the moon and back?

[Overwatch]

Take care of yourself (self-improvement) and the rest generally takes care of itself. This approach has worked well for me.

[zabu of nΩd]

Originally Posted by King Richard

Yeah well, your opinion on love and relationships is a little strange too though.

What do you mean by that?

Originally Posted by King Richard

Maybe you should re-evaluate what you really want, a fuck buddy or a woman. If you just want to fuck go get a escort like aug.

I'm pretty sure i need some kind of ongoing/reliable female companionship in my life, and i certainly don't want to spend a shitton of money doing it (unless there's some really good argument that fucking a prostitute would be worth the price for me, i.e. getting practice touching girls in a "safe" environment that i could later apply at bars/parties when trying to flirt), so i think i'm stuck in the Game for now.

[Vossyrus]

Originally Posted by zabu of nΩd

unless there's some really good argument that fucking a prostitute would be worth the price for me

Free STDs with every purchase? And, if it satisfies your curiosity, the benefit of knowing what the last pack of wieners tasted like?

[Vimana]

Originally Posted by Overwatch

Aug needs to stop putting the pussy on a pedestal.

He'll be "The 40-year-old Virgin to Mutually Good Sex."

[Zephyrus]

Zephyress

[Xorv]

Originally Posted by zabu of nΩd

What do you mean by that?

I'm pretty sure i need some kind of ongoing/reliable female companionship in my life, and i certainly don't want to spend a shitton of money doing it (unless there's some really good argument that fucking a prostitute would be worth the price for me, i.e. getting practice touching girls in a "safe" environment that i could later apply at bars/parties when trying to flirt), so i think i'm stuck in the Game for now.

ok look, u have to get out of your comfort zone to get anywhere with women. Forget the prostitutes and just head over to a bar/club and start opening up conversations with women. It's not that hard it's just a matter of saying hello how you doing/what u up to/whatever and if she shows disinterest forget about her and move on.

[zabu of nΩd]

Yeah i just need practice making some moves and seeing how different chicks respond. I went out last night and talked to a couple girls, i'm doing it again tonight. Trying to get back into the habit of being out at night on weekends.

[Overwatch]

Generally speaking, you are going to have more luck meeting girls like yourself hanging out at venues, whether IRL or on the internet, where you like to be anyway.

Unless you just want some desperate skank pussy.

[waif]

Originally Posted by King Richard

Btw, I forgot to mention the best part about that chick I posted earlier:
...
Fuck and yes. Although I must admit, this is about the fifth chick I've seen who's answered that question the same. I've never known many chicks who want to fuck everyday. But if this is somehow true, man o' man this is going to be interesting.

I don't even get sexless relationships. I wouldn't want to be with a chick who didn't want to fuck everyday.

Originally Posted by zabu of nΩd

What do you mean by that?

I'm pretty sure i need some kind of ongoing/reliable female companionship in my life, and i certainly don't want to spend a shitton of money doing it (unless there's some really good argument that fucking a prostitute would be worth the price for me, i.e. getting practice touching girls in a "safe" environment that i could later apply at bars/parties when trying to flirt), so i think i'm stuck in the Game for now.

Don't go to a prostitute. It's gross. And it'd be something you'd probably have to lie about to future romantic partners.

Just keep talking to women. Not necessarily flirtatiously, just talk to them. Get comfortable with them. They'll figure out if they're interested.
Hitting the gym wouldn't hurt. It'll help your confidence and give you a conversation topic. It's amazing how much people can talk about personal fitness.

[zabu of nΩd]

Well i had a pretty unremarkable time tonight. I met up with a guy around 11pm and we went to 3 different bars. I talked to a girl briefly at one, and it wasn't awkward, but she really didn't seem interested in me, unlike the girl at the party last night -- this one politely responded to everything i said, but didn't add anything herself.

This was my first weekend in a long time where i really gave the nightlife a serious effort, so there's still a lot about it that i need to get used to. Definitely want to start earlier next weekend, cause i got a late start both yesterday and today and all the bars within walking distance were crowded and hard to start conversations in.

[Krigloch the Furious]

I hate bars, absolutely hate them

[Xorv]

the more girls u talk to the higher percentage you have of actually connecting with someone, 1 isn't enough considering that you probably live in a big city.

[Master_Yoda77]

Got a skype date with OKC girl I mentioned earlier. We are working on meeting up this month. Hopefully we'll get something.

[arg]

you can go to 100 bars and have 1000 conversations and still come up with squat. not to mention conversing is fucking tiring; you do all the introductory shit, then try in vain to find common interests, only to realize she'd rather be somewhere else than talking to your boring ass, so then you have to start it all over again with the next bitch. fuck that, i'd rather play video games.

[Episteme]

Aug, you sound so bitter when you talk about normal women. Must've had really bad experiences? All girls aren't there to outright reject you, they'll talk to you if you show some worth. There is good in people you know.

[waif]

I mean, if you look like aug, it's hard. Especially since he doesn't seem attracted to other asians. Asian men aren't a hot commodity among other races the way asian women are.

[arg]

just keepin it real for zabu. yes WAIF i am aware of that. and to pre-empt Episteme's reply, yes asian guys can get white chicks but i dont want just any mediocre one (when i see an asian guy with a legit but average-to-ugly white chick i think "is that it? i don't envy you bro, lol") i want the absolute finest specimens and guaranteed sex with them.

[Mort Divine]

jesus christ...

[Zephyrus]

Grant needs to move to a real city, like Boston or Chicago.

[SentinelSlain]

Originally Posted by zabu of nΩd

How did you meet her? What were you planning to do together?

Me? just hang out really. It wasn't really a date and I didn't actually leave and wait for her, she just didn't call and texted saying she'd gone home early because she was tired. It's not as bad as it sounds, I've never indicated any interest in this girl in that kind of way so she might not have even considered that I was thinking along those lines. She wasn't at a bar or club either so I don't think someone else got with her.

[Vimana]

Originally Posted by aug

just keepin it real for zabu. yes WAIF i am aware of that. and to pre-empt Episteme's reply, yes asian guys can get white chicks but i dont want just any mediocre one (when i see an asian guy with a legit but average-to-ugly white chick i think "is that it? i don't envy you bro, lol") i want the absolute finest specimens and guaranteed sex with them.

I'm not one of those "appearances don't matter" people, but to call someone "mediocre" is a bit harsh, isn't it?

Episteme's right, dude. You sound bitter. It's like something happened to make the idea of enjoying a woman's personality seem impossible to you.

[zabu of nΩd]

Originally Posted by Zephyrus

Grant needs to move to a real city, like Boston or Chicago.

Yeah Richmond sucks, i can't wait to start traveling around in a couple months and looking for other places to move.