Katatonia - Where does the darkness come from?

[My Hearse Your Arms]

Originally Posted by KittyKatatonia

Yikes! Ever hear of paragraphs?

For the record, my "tough guy" has never hit me and he never will. If I thought there was even a chance of that I would never be with him to begin with. I just like my men to act like men, not fragile little boys. You can assume all you want to about me and my life outside of this board, but none of what you said is true. Most people find me funny and interesting to be around, except uptight people like you seem to be. I think you should pull your Katatonia collection out of your ass and try to have a little more fun on the board. If you can't find any humor in some weirdo saying he's close to the dark side and me calling him Darth Vader...then I feel sorry for you. Or maybe you're more of a Star Trek fan?

Fragile little boys?
i assume thats one of your little cute insults (of which your most likely self-hating self has) for emotional...
two things, bitch.
1.) men have emotions just as strong as females... we're humans too, asshole. We feel pain just as badly as you.
2.) this is a Katatonia forum, dumbfuck. if you havnt noticed, katatonias music is full of anguish, melancholia, pain, sorrow and contemplation; all the likes of which we are trying to discuss, ponder, help people resolve conflicts, and most of all, be FRIENDS with fellow Katatonia fans. if your blind, ignorant ass cannot see this, and you want to sooth your own low self esteem by kicking people in the face while theyre at their lowest moments, go ahead, but get your filthy ass out of this forum bitch and do so elsewhere.

[Ejay]

Originally Posted by KittyKatatonia

Yikes! Ever hear of paragraphs?

For the record, my "tough guy" has never hit me and he never will. If I thought there was even a chance of that I would never be with him to begin with. I just like my men to act like men, not fragile little boys. You can assume all you want to about me and my life outside of this board, but none of what you said is true. Most people find me funny and interesting to be around, except uptight people like you seem to be. I think you should pull your Katatonia collection out of your ass and try to have a little more fun on the board. If you can't find any humor in some weirdo saying he's close to the dark side and me calling him Darth Vader...then I feel sorry for you. Or maybe you're more of a Star Trek fan?

Thing is, when people expose their feelings, in real life or here for that matter, I can't find a single reason to make fun of them. I find you a bit offensive, really.

[KittyKatatonia]

Originally Posted by My Hearse Your Arms

Fragile little boys?
i assume thats one of your little cute insults (of which your most likely self-hating self has) for emotional...
two things, bitch.
1.) men have emotions just as strong as females... we're humans too, asshole. We feel pain just as badly as you.
2.) this is a Katatonia forum, dumbfuck. if you havnt noticed, katatonias music is full of anguish, melancholia, pain, sorrow and contemplation; all the likes of which we are trying to discuss, ponder, help people resolve conflicts, and most of all, be FRIENDS with fellow Katatonia fans. if your blind, ignorant ass cannot see this, and you want to sooth your own low self esteem by kicking people in the face while theyre at their lowest moments, go ahead, but get your filthy ass out of this forum bitch and do so elsewhere.

Is it your time of the month again? Holy crap this is out of hand.

1.) It's fine for men to have emotions. But they don't have to be crybabies about it.
2.) I'm aware this is the Katatonia forum. It says it in bold letters right on the top of the screen...it's pretty tough to miss. And I honestly don't mind people discussing their feelings, but when somebody says something really cheesy and lame, it cracks me up and it makes for great comedy. You guys really need to do more laughing and less crying and whining. You'll find it'll work wonders for your bitchy mood swings.

[KittyKatatonia]

Originally Posted by Ejay

Thing is, when people expose their feelings, in real life or here for that matter, I can't find a single reason to make fun of them. I find you a bit offensive, really.

So pull the stick out of your ass and get a sense of humor. Problem solved!

[My Hearse Your Arms]

lol wow this bitch is stupid

get out of this forum

hhahahahaha
wow

oh my god

[Deliverance6]

Originally Posted by KittyKatatonia

So pull the stick out of your ass and get a sense of humor. Problem solved!

although some of your comments are admittedly sometimes made in humorous ways what I think you dont understand is that all your really doing here is pissing people off.....you do understand the difference right? I am probably one of the easiest going people here on the forum, I am rational....and Im not a dick just for the sake of it. In fact the last time I talked to Anders in person he was asking why I wasnt a moderator here. You need to take a look at yourself and quit pointing fingers at other people for their potential flaws. Just be cool....I really dont think were asking too much from you. And no....obviously I dont care much for paragraphs or punctuation.

[i aint play this]

First of all i'd like to say that being a strong person and having a sense of humor is indeed very important...but it is good to remember that being a tough guy for the sake of it won't make you a ''real man'', it will make a neanderthalean, annoying dumbass. For fuck's sake, we are in the goddamn Katatonia forum, is their lead singer called Phil Anselmo? or am i missing something? that is my point..a man exposing his feelings can actually be more manly than some alcoholic metalhead idiot trying to act tough all the time and embarassing himself...countless times.
Crybabies are not cool and i agree that some self-pity exaggerated comments are for the most part hilarious and, hmmm...not very mature, a lot of whiners act as if life is an unfair fairytale, but people have different reasons for everything and mocking someone who suffers from something like clinical depression is a little immature and ignorant for obvious reasons. A real man is obviously not a girly drama queen, but someone who has the balls to admit who they are in a ''down to earth'' way. I can act like an asshole in these forums but my goal is all the same: have some fun. This is the internet, people should not take things seriously at all, so i agree with Kitty on that...but fact is, if someone is spilling their guts in a public forum like this...the person deserves some respect. Just my two cents.

[BlueSky]

Originally Posted by i aint play this

...

You disgust the pryor.

Giving internet drama queens reason. Like the internet is not already over run by retards. Isn't it enough!?! Now she's playing herself off as trying to be funny when she is clearly not. For-shame!

It's gonna be a while before your can look yourself straight in the mirror again. Buddy.

Ok people here is the thing. She obviously doesn't care to change. So as james would say, "we're just giving her fuel for her fire." She obviously thrives off this drama bs. So my suggestion is either ignore her or if you can't do that just block her simple ass. It's really that simple. Last thing i'm gonna say on this issue.



See pryor? he is not amused.

[Ejay]

Originally Posted by KittyKatatonia

So pull the stick out of your ass and get a sense of humor. Problem solved!

Your comments are immature.

Let people be uptight, boring, cheesy or whatever. Don't be condescending.

I'm going to leave you with a cliché; "Don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes".

Hopefully, you'll understand eventually.

[Misere Nobis]

If someone decides to post his personal story/feelings/etc on a public messageboard they can expect these kind of replies. If you can't take jokes on your personal stuff, don't post it on the internet. Or just ignore them. It wouldn't hurt too laugh about yourself once in while too. Makes life a lot easier (or at least, it does for me).

[i aint play this]

Originally Posted by BlueSky

You disgust the pryor.

Giving internet drama queens reason. Like the internet is not already over run by retards. Isn't it enough!?! Now she's playing herself off as trying to be funny when she is clearly not. For-shame!

It's gonna be a while before your can look yourself straight in the mirror again. Buddy.

Ok people here is the thing. She obviously doesn't care to change. So as james would say, "we're just giving her fuel for her fire." She obviously thrives off this drama bs. So my suggestion is either ignore her or if you can't do that just block her simple ass. It's really that simple. Last thing i'm gonna say on this issue.



See pryor? he is not amused.

lol I disgust what?

All i'm saying is that crybabies are annoying and she makes a good point when she says that. But it is not the case with My Hearse your Arms, the guy is just asking for some answers and he should be respected, you can't label him as a ''crybaby'' or not a ''real man'' for that post. Anyways i'm done with this shit, gonna go out and have some cheap vodka, etc.

[Belligerent]

This is making my day I think...
I havent been on here for few days and Its a fucking free for all.
Its ironic because I was telling someone else on GMD that the Katatonia forums had great advice on bands etc. and cool laid back down to earth people on there...
The fist**** comment was just out of hand and you guys are taking things WAY overboard.
KittyKatatonia is a faggot troll that you'll probably never see again so lets....start from scratch and stop the mindless name calling. Holy shit!

[season1234]

Originally Posted by KittyKatatonia

Is it your time of the month again? Holy crap this is out of hand.

1.) It's fine for men to have emotions. But they don't have to be crybabies about it.
2.) I'm aware this is the Katatonia forum. It says it in bold letters right on the top of the screen...it's pretty tough to miss. And I honestly don't mind people discussing their feelings, but when somebody says something really cheesy and lame, it cracks me up and it makes for great comedy. You guys really need to do more laughing and less crying and whining. You'll find it'll work wonders for your bitchy mood swings.

People can have emotions and discuss their feelings, but because of HOW he said it, it is suddenly funny? Sorry girl, that is retarded logic. There is a big difference between "choosing" to "whine" about something, and having a disease such as depression where despite attempts to have a better time or laugh a lot as you advise nothing helps all that much. You need to be more careful with what you say...what you think is funny is obviously NOT funny to most of the people here, so you are in the minority here and need to get a fucking clue.

[Bereavement]

I didn't read other posts from kittykatatonia, but referring to the "darth vader" reply I didn't feel that too offensive as you guys thought? maybe just her previous behaviors made you guys judge she were offensive at that reply?

anyway I like peaceful discussions buut I gotta admit I sometime enjoy this kind of flaming post, well perhaps this is the dark side of me

[Misere Nobis]

Why should she be careful with what she says? I think people should be able to say whatever they want, and this forum is not an exception. It's just a matter of how people cope with these posts. People like KittyKatatonia choose to act like a bitch and she is taking the responsibility. Which is that most of the message board users don't like her anymore. That's the consequence for her, and it's her choice. I think people here shouldn't be so overemotional about this. I'm not refering to the stories themselves but the jokes about them.

Edit: and about the clinical depression thing, why do people have to feel sorry for themselves because of this? Or why does everyone has to take this in consideration before talking to someone who has 'clinical depression'. I wouldn't even want people to do this with me. I know, not everyone is like me, but it's still something to think about don't you think?

[Belligerent]

Im not sure why that dude chose to post his mental problems on here at all...

[My Hearse Your Arms]

who posted their mental problems?

it was part of a bloody discussion

[brownden]

I think everyone is blowing this way out of proportion. If anyone else had made the darth vader comment it would have been brushed off, but since it was kitty that made it and since nearly everybody here has some beef with kitty then its obviously her making a personal attack. holy shit guys, just ignore it if it bothers you that much. you dont actually know her personally, so what does her opinion matter?
i'm not going to take sides because this is a fucking retarded waste of everybody's time. and yeah kitty may have been in the wrong to make certain comments but it's no reason to ruin the original discussion.

And if you guys want to see a real man, watch Star Trek: The Next Generation. Jean Luc Picard is all the man anyone will ever need.

[LifeDepraved]

In Sin City there is that guy that puts the other guy in the piss water...she exclaimed he's a real man.

So....put someones face in piss water=man.

[brownden]

Originally Posted by LifeDepraved

In Sin City there is that guy that puts the other guy in the piss water...she exclaimed he's a real man.

So....put someones face in piss water=man.

HAHAHAHAHA holy shit this thread keeps getting more and more hilarious!!!!

[EternityRites]

"Too much fucking emo, it's false (I know)"


Lets get back on track shall we? This was an interesting topic originally...

[Ejay]

Originally Posted by Misere Nobis

Why should she be careful with what she says? I think people should be able to say whatever they want, and this forum is not an exception.

But of course, everyone is entitled to his/her opinion.

Thing is, what good comes of making fun of someone else's problems? Is it ok just because we're on the net?

What kind of value does it creat? A laugh?

F*cking fantastic.

[My Hearse Your Arms]

so... back on subject...

anyone wanna give their thoughts on where they think the darkness comes from in katatonia?

[discouraged1]

from satan, obviously.

[LifeDepraved]

Too much booze and old Metal Blade Thrash releases on vinyl.