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happy to talk with strangers?

Discussion in 'Chat' started by radiohead, Dec 15, 2010.

  1. radiohead

    radiohead New Metal Member

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    do you feel free to talk with strangers?i think i prefer to stay alone.that's why i hate myself so much.
     
  2. BasilisK

    BasilisK Good day, pusscake.

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    monoxide_child New Metal Member

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    i talk to strangers all the time
     
  4. Grank

    Grank The Great Owl

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    It depends on the level of rapport/comfort for me. There are some people that just launch into me like I've known them for 20+ years, not good, but I treat them like they treat me and they leave me alone.

    Relationships are built on basis of commonality, not "I care because you do" and such. I might make a comment to a stranger but it's very short and to the point. "Nice car" in a low tone, not getting all happy and stuff. Just humor people that act unbelievingly happy, don't ignore them, they are trying or are going through a tough period in their life.

    Now, if someone comes to me and says "chicken with medley birdbath" then it's time to answer the cell phone in a fake manner...
     
  5. Versteky

    Versteky Versteky the strange

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    zabbadabadooba16 the dead will arise >:D

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    I guess it's still because I'm young, but if I find something interesting about a stranger or a stranger starts talking to me, I'll smile back and try to reply in a polite way, but one of my friends told me that I seem too nice when talking to people I don't even know, but I mean I'm just being myself. I don't think there's anything wrong with me, and my life is relatively calm considering I'm in high school, but yeah.

    NOTE: I will almost NEVER talk to people in my own grade that I don't know, I'll talk to underclassmen and upperclassmen, but I just get really intimidated by the people in my own classes until they come and talk to me, but when I start to talk around then I get really...erm...let's say "outgoing" and people sort of start to come to me just cuz I have that type of personality I guess.
     
  7. Versteky

    Versteky Versteky the strange

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    consign2oblivion New Metal Member

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    One year ago I really hated having to talk with strangers. Then I changed and I couldn't live without talking to someone, even if I didn't know it.
    And now... well, now there are days when I'd love it, and some others when I prefer to be alone...

    I can't understand those people who are always talking to strangers =S
     
  9. theoden236

    theoden236 Soul Wandering

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    i hardly ever try to talk to strangers; most of the time i do prefer to be left alone. kind of a nice feeling most of the time, but there are other times where it feels boring (maybe that's why i ain't got a girlfriend, or any kind of social life, hehehe).
     
  10. consign2oblivion

    consign2oblivion New Metal Member

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    The key is not to force yourself.
    But! Some people could be really interesting.
     
  11. Versteky

    Versteky Versteky the strange

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    :yow: Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!
     
  12. Susilapsi

    Susilapsi New Metal Member

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    Sometimes you just have to talk to people that you don't know, that's the way to make friends... but I'm not too social a person, so usually I prefer keeping my mouth shut.
     
  13. Cronopio

    Cronopio Glorious Imperator

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    Talking might be ok, but what I'm really afraid of is shooting them.
     
  14. Kara-Shehr

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    Well played. ^
     
  15. epicous

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    I like to talk to dogs.
     
  16. Cronopio

    Cronopio Glorious Imperator

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    What do they say?
     
  17. epicous

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    They can not say anything. They communicate by invisible waves of transmission.
     
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    Now, didn't Dio warn us "Don't Talk To Strangers"??? Case closed.
     
  19. epicous

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    Open mind.
     
  20. diamondlady

    diamondlady New Metal Member

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    sometimes it is good to talk with strangers.. they dont even know you.. even if you tell them all of your secrets it wont hurt them or you :) try it out
     
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