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Discussion in 'GMD Social Forum' started by damnromulans, Jun 28, 2010.

  1. Carpe Mortem

    Carpe Mortem Benevolently Batshit

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    I'm the more rational one in my relationship and I gotta tell ya it grates my fucking nerves. Never go for crazy. Never even go for interesting, settle down with a 6/10 who does what you say and you'll be so much happier in the long run. If your libido takes a beating from the uglies just keep the lights off. Or fuck your libido, who cares, it dies on it's own eventually anyways.
     
  2. MasterpieceMesias

    MasterpieceMesias Professional Asshole

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    That sounds 150% boring as shit
     
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  3. Dak

    Dak mentat

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    I think this is probably good advice for a lot of people who are high on rationality and/or wanting control (the latter is frequently the former but not always). "Interesting" or even 8+/10 just introduce too many "variables" that ultimately make life more difficult than it needs to be.
     
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    the only viable options for me are having someone ‘interesting’ or just staying single. relationships introduce variables and make life more difficult, i’m not gonna bother with that shit for someone boring/unattractive.

    obvs there are degrees though, i draw a line at what i’d call ‘crazy’ lol
     
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  5. Dak

    Dak mentat

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    "Interesting" to most people turns out to be code for incompatible. Relationships do produce variables but they can either be multiplicative or negative. Two people trying to just go OFP are merely business partners at best.
     
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    Matt Active Member

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    So I've had the following scenario occur 3 times in 2019. I meet a reasonably attractive girl on Tinder / Facebook / etc. First few dates go well. Suddenly, the cling factor goes up to 11 and I'm getting texted every hour of the day, expected to hang out all the time etc. What happened to taking things slowly? Lord.
     
  7. TechnicalBarbarity

    TechnicalBarbarity -TheNightsBane-

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    you're not dating guys anymore?
     
  8. jimmy101

    jimmy101 Active Member

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    It can be a mixed bag that's for sure. When I was doing the whole dating app thing about a year ago I met up with a girl & we had a nice little first date. Next thing i knew she was blowing up my Motorola asking me if she could spend the weekend at my house, pestering me about getting me to some stupid podcast she liked. Literally went from zero to fifty in a matter of 24 hours.

    Guess there's a good reason why some of these girls are singletons.
     
  9. Dak

    Dak mentat

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    The Wall/biological clock is probably becoming an issue for the girls you are meeting. Or, only personality disorders are all that's left on dating sites.
     
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    CiG The Grand Calculation

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    In your experience (IIRC you're bisexual?) are men clingier?
     
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    jimmy101 Active Member

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    Maybe someone here can help me decipher this baffling text message I received last night...

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  12. CiG

    CiG The Grand Calculation

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    She's asking if you like Marissa romantically.
     
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    She's testing the water to see if she has a shot with you Jimmy. Reply back that you're ready and you can keep a secret.
     
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    Honestly, I haven't really been dating men much in the past few years. I think everyone is clingy though. Insecure, emotionally unstable, not well-adjusted
     
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    TechnicalBarbarity -TheNightsBane-

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    are you still juicing? That just might be the root of it all.
     
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    Matt Active Member

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    Both are probably true. But even with that why would you become so emotionally attached so soon? Makes no sense.
     
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    Matt Active Member

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    What are you talking about?
     
  18. TechnicalBarbarity

    TechnicalBarbarity -TheNightsBane-

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    im asking if you're still on steroids. That just might be the reason why everyone seems "not well adjusted, emotionally unstable, insecure etc" to you. Just trying to help you out, sistah.
     
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    I've never taken steroids and never implied that I did. I just lift a lot.
     
  20. CiG

    CiG The Grand Calculation

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    In my experience, most "everyone is..." problems are actually you problems.
     
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