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Discussion in 'GMD Social Forum' started by damnromulans, Jun 28, 2010.
Wasn't well worded. Meant to say, that both men and women have the ability to be equally clingy.
balls in your mouth doesnt count as "lifting".
You just need to come out of the closet already bro. Embrace your inner submissive bitch that's begging to show its face to the world.
what do you max out at? Two pairs? How many dudes have drilled you in the last year or so?
Desperation due to age or maybe:
I sometimes wonder how some folks even manage to find/trick someone for a relationship.
You ever meet folks that seem like they've no real redeeming qualities? Nothing you could even imagine personality wise or sexually that you could get why the opposite (or same) sex would even see as appealing?
It kinda makes me wonder what the flying fuck is wrong with me that I'm still perpetually single.
Lol yes - regularly. Seems like lots of people do not have any interests or hobbies at all, and just somehow exist. It's mind-boggling.
I have noticed this and I also don't understand it. I have more hobbies than I could ever manage working satisfactorily.
I just don't get how life is enjoyable enough for them to live that way. Plus, if I'm dating someone that has their own hobbies it means that they'll leave me the fuck alone sometimes.
I think a lot of these "hobbyless" people actually just do typical things we wouldn't consider a hobby, and that takes up enough of their time to sufficiently get away from each other in relationships. I.e. television, cleaning, cooking, grocery shopping etc.
And they're probably better looking than us, that's why they never developed anything more interesting at a younger age. Socializing with other good looking people was a hobby in itself.
I likewise have a theory that as single lifelong good looking people navigate the dating pool in their 30s and 40s, they realize the lessening value of their looks. And in turn, they make an effort to engage in new hobbies and be more interesting. Since they already have the advantage of (generally) fine tuned social skills, they flourish in these hobbies by networking and joining clubs and finding others to learn from, etc.
The three people I had in mind when I brought this up fall into that category. They watch neflix and stare at their IG during their free time. I didn't think about attractiveness being part of this but I can definitely see it now.
I think @Carpe Mortem is being too generous. Most people are not good looking by definition, and with the rising rates of obesity it's even less likely. Netflix/video games and kids sports and mindless socializing/"events" seem to suffice for large swaths of the population. It is true that extraverts have an advantage in picking up new hobbies and networking. No necessary overlap between looks and extraversion, although looking good helps with confidence.
That could definitely be the true correlation. But to point back at the issue at hand - those suffice as hobbies regardless. Just shitty ones lol.
I would clarify that shitty = passive engagement. "My pasttimes include vegging out and watching the Office and Adult Swim reruns". Amazing personal development going on here! Enriching the world one subscription fee at a time!
Technically.... it doesn't have to be enriching.
That definition is clearly incomplete and misses the sense in which many people use the word.
Right, it doesn't, and @zabu of nΩd is right as well. Shitty = passive.
I guess I got lucky. I'm the more rational one but my girlfriend's personality is so similar to mine that in between the belief in magic & symbols and occasional hallucinations and things, she's very rational too. I'm a total calming influence because I'm open to that stuff and I never need/want to tell her what to do. Only people who tell her what to do or try to guilt trip her risk facing the wrath of her craziness.
What counts as attractive? I ain't afraid to admit that I'm built like a tank and have a pretty banging physique compared to most fatass American men (I'm 5'11, 211, 13% bodyfat). But my face is fucking busted af. I hate it with a passion.
I play bass and write a lot.
I'm also an asshole who hates most people and have an offensive sense of humor, like Frankie Boyle level shit.
There's gotta be some reason why I'm walking vagina repellent, but I can't for the life of me figure out what the fuck the problem is. I got my theories, though