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my mom is dead, should i feel bad about it?

Discussion in 'The Philosopher' started by monoxide_child, Nov 10, 2010.

  1. monoxide_child

    monoxide_child New Metal Member

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    thnx
     
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    -(Of the void perfected)- New Metal Member

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    At least your being honest with yourself about how u feel.If she made life a total mire of misery for your,then guess what shes gone and you reasoning for being happy about it is understandable.
     
  3. monoxide_child

    monoxide_child New Metal Member

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    thnx

    also
    this forum was totally dead for a min
    thank you people for coming back
     
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    monoxide_child New Metal Member

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    today is mother's day

    i've always hated mother's day

    everyone i know is acting totally different than the way they normally act and it's getting kinda annoying
     
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    Spiderchrist The Unjesus

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    Sorry to hear that, brother.
     
  6. Rough Divide

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    Why in the fuck would anyone sympathize with you if you're not even feeling sorry for yourself, besides it's not anyones job to feel sorry for others especially over shit you wish you gave a fuck about.
     
  7. Carpe Mortem

    Carpe Mortem Benevolently Batshit

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    I agree with you completely dude, you don't need to feel bad just because you clearly didn't love your mother.

    I don't really love my mother either. Why do people feel like you have to, just because the bitch spread her legs, got pregnant, and didn't get an abortion? Most people have kids as an ego boost or proof their partner loves them anyways.

    But that's something I'm not getting into, my opinions on children and the nuclear family unit in general are frowned upon and I don't wanna hurt the feelings of happy parents.
     
  8. monoxide_child

    monoxide_child New Metal Member

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    my female chef (whom i talk about frequently on the GMD Social forum) is a woman who cries on my shoulder atleast once a week (litterally her tears actually soaking the shoulder part of my shirt) and almost every single mother fucking time i have to deal with her curled up on my lap crying, she's crying about how crappy her boyfriend is

    this woman never uses any kind of birth-control because she somehow thinks that getting pregnant will have the effect of making her crappy boyfriend magically turn into an awesome person

    me personnally, i'm my mother's 2nd child, me and my older sister have 2 different fathers, our mom and my sister's dad broke up long before i was concieved, our mom and my dad were a one-night-stand, she found out she was pregnant with me in the morning and found out my dad was engaged to someone else in the afternoon of the same fucking day, and even though my dad was engaged to someone else (in the middle of his fucking honeymoon the day i was born) my mom briefly thought about aborting me, and then dicided not to just simply because she wanted her first kid "to have a playmate"
    seriously
    the reason i didn't end up being an abortion is so my older sister "could have a playmate"

    my mom was completely totally flat-ass broke the day i was concieved, totally flat-ass broke my entire fucking childhood, had a 3rd kid with a 3rd man, made no fucking attempt to collect any child-support from any of our dads, and the whole reason she had 3 kids instead of just 1, was just so that her 1st kid could have playmates

    and my dad has children with an entire dozen different women, (i've actually met most of my father's kids) didn't bother to interact with any of them at all whatsoever, didn't financially support any of them even though he's as rich-as-hell, and didn't show up to my birth because he was on his freaking honeymoon

    so, forgive me if a have a problem with the whole "honor thy mother and father" thing
     
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    Carpe Mortem Benevolently Batshit

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    I just have a philosophical issue with the concept of honoring one's parents on the sole basis of them being the human beings who fucked and birthed you. I mean yeah I had some shit to deal with growing up, but I like to think my feelings go beyond that to become genuinely legitimate, rational views on paternity. If a parent or parents suck, it's actually bad for your mental health to want them to love you. You're better off distancing yourself.

    My parents have gotten a lot cooler in time. I think they feel bad for my childhood, so they try really hard (almost pathetically so) to get my approval. And granted I'm still pretty cold towards my mom, but someday we may have a decent relationship.
     
  10. monoxide_child

    monoxide_child New Metal Member

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    this^^ is the whole freaking point i was trying to make with this thread

    also
    i actually busted out laughing when i found out my mom had died and i wanted to talk about that, needed to talk about it to make sure i was sane and not totally a monster
     
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    No, you're not a monster, and yes you're sane, hell, you might be the most sane person on ultimate metal
     

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