What am I now, and old girlfriend for you to talk about "our history"? For "a musician that has been gigging for over 5 years," I am surprised that you find this so surprising. It's pretty common. If you don't like my responses because they go against what you say, I don't know what to tell you. Most of the times I don't do it just for the sake of being a dick - I am either giving you a little enlightening (which let's face it, most of the times you need because you have said a LOT of things that make absolute zero sense), or simply disagreeing with your point of view. This is a forum for music discussion. It's also a close, tight-knit community. There will be people who will agree with you and who will disagree with you. Deal with it. I have been part of this community for about 12 years now. You will be attending your first ProgPower. A lot of people around here are some of my best friends and can tell you I'm a good guy. Now, don't act like I'm a big bully. I have agreed with you in many occasions, offered friendly help about the experience in Atlanta (especially as a first timer) and even introduced myself to you (and had a friendly brief conversation) at the Jolly show. That says something, doesn't it? Get over the drama and join us for a beer in Atlanta.