It's kind of like the question "Is Slipknot metal?" Yes, Slipknot is metal, but not "true". Oral sex is sex, but not real sex. I have not done anything sexual, sadly. I am afraid to even get jerked off because I am worried I might not "produce enough". That is what happens during a quick jerk off session. Probably because I do it way too much, no time to "restore" it.