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Discussion in 'LORD' started by Lord Tim, Feb 14, 2006.
Sorry, man. The Pantera forum closed down a while ago.
Figuring out how to fix something that's "technically" WAY above your skill set
Edit: that lol was for Keeper of the Seven cheese.
Sterosonic on Saturday! Fuck Yeah!
I FEEL FUNKEH!
I just wanna show recognition of how awesome this was
That was indeed a good call Dougie
I like laying in bed with the woman I love and listening to the rain, having all day to fuck around on my new guitar (Which I don't know how to play... At all, heh) and dog-sitting for Mum; Her 2 bitches and the 4 remaining pups from the last litter. So awesome.
opps nearly read this as
" I like laying in bed with the woman I love and listening to the rain, having all day to fuck "
sorry don'y mean to offend
Yeah, I had to read it twice. Priorities, priorities.
Not today She has work and it's my day off
Having all day to fuck would be cool though.
If I had someone to fuck that is.
^ sounds like someone needs to get back into the dating world.
Im likeing that I have 2 Exams left on monday then Im done, thats it no more tafe. Well that is unless I enroll for a corse next year, very tempting... many drinks are to be had on the 17th! Graduation night Ill be the drunk one at 'A not so silent night' gig LOL
I'm finding the dating thing gets a bit harder as you get older but I think I'm a bit set in my ways.
One guy I know however got divorced and remarried really quickly, had his first kid with the new wife already.
This is pretty true, a few people I know who have either been single for ages or are a bit older, tend to find it harder to find people who are willing to suit there ways.
I suppose once you find something that works for you its hard to take the risk and give something else a try...
Most guys I know that are like this find it hard to take the first step and initiate things, where as the chicks don't want to seem pushy/needy and are waiting for the blokes to make the move LOL its a vicious circle.
My advise (which may or may not be usful ) is pretty generic - put yourself out there, getting rejected isnt the worst that can happen.
Some guy had the balls to come up to me at a Lord gig a while ago and introduce himself and although I wasnt avalible, we are now good mates and hes dating my friend... keep an open mind.
Oh and my like for the day is I have sat all my exams and Im just waiting to hear if I have passed!!! it feels good to know I dont have to go to Classes or exams next week!
I'm a bit old fashioned and tend to think it's the guys job to initiate but usually the girl will give it away subliminally with eye contact, body language, etc.
Yeah getting rejected isn't the worst thing, the worst thing can be that awkward dating phase, sometimes the thought of it just seems like too much hard work but as I hinted in another thread, when the girl seems to be worth it moving mountains just somehow becomes effortless
Same here. Although - i've recently found it sooo much easier to deal with the situation by approaching it as though all i want to be is friends at first. That way theres so much less pressure im putting on myself.
That's great if all you want to be is a friend, I've put myself in the 'friend zone' more times than I care to remember and not once did it go any further...and it works both ways, sometimes you find things about them and you end up so glad it didn't go further.
In theory yes they are called girlfriends for a reason and it's good if you have a friendship to build on but don't string it out too long, it's hard to build passion when they see you as a brother, also if someone else is interested in her they'll beat you to it and the girl will also think you're half arsed/not serious about her. Yep, dating sometimes is a minefield.
I have to add, even as a friend there is still a point when you're going to have to front up and ask her out on a date to show that you want to take it further or make an impromptu move on her. That could be more awkward than trying it out on a 'stranger'.
It could also backfire...and if it does be confident and continue where you left off before the move, as if nothing happened and you're fine with it, 'you saw something that wasn't there before, just wanted to take a chance and see if it worked' otherwise they could see you as a creep/stalker/someone deceitful and you'll ruin a friendship.