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California -The Spank Me State

Discussion in 'Billy Milano' started by fah-q, Jan 19, 2007.

  1. fah-q

    fah-q Brusque

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    No-spank bill on way
    By Mike Zapler
    MediaNews Sacramento Bureau
    SACRAMENTO - The state Legislature is about to weigh in on a question that stirs impassioned debate among moms and dads: Should parents spank their children?

    Assemblywoman Sally Lieber, D-Mountain View, wants to outlaw spanking children up to 3 years old. If she succeeds, California would become the first state in the nation to explicitly ban parents from smacking their kids.
    Of course, they had to put an age ceiling on this bill. Otherwise, half of San Francisco would be under arrest.
    Making a swat on the behind a misdemeanor might seem a bit much for some -- and the chances of the idea becoming law appear slim, at best -- but Lieber begs to differ.

    ``I think it's pretty hard to argue you need to beat a child 3 years old or younger,'' Lieber said. ``Is it OK to whip a 1-year-old or a 6-month-old or a newborn?''Who said anything about BEATING? Freud would like to have a word with you.

    The bill, which is still being drafted, will be written broadly, she added, prohibiting ``any striking of a child, any corporal punishment, smacking, hitting, punching, any of that.'' Lieber said it would be a misdemeanor, punishable by up to a year in jail or a fine up to $1,000, although a legal expert advising her on the proposal said first-time offenders would probably only have to attend parenting classes. What about a stern glance or a good talking-to? Are those acts next to be deemed criminal?

    The idea is encountering skepticism even before it's been formally introduced. Beyond the debate among child psychologists -- many of whom believe limited spanking can be effective -- the bill is sure to face questions over how practical it is to enforce and opposition from some legislators who generally oppose what they consider ``nanny government.''

    ``Where do you stop?'' asked Assemblyman Chuck DeVore, R-Irvine, who said he personally agrees children under 3 shouldn't be spanked but has no desire to make it the law. ``At what point are we going to say we should pass a bill that every parent has to read a minimum of 30 minutes every night to their child? This is right along those same lines.''

    One San Jose mother of three said she believes spanking is a poor way to discipline children, but she also wondered whether a legislative ban makes sense. Should a mom who slaps her misbehaving kid in the supermarket, she asked, be liable for a crime?
    One San Francisco man, working at the Velvet Spike, stated that spanking is a great way for him to dominate his boyfriends.


    ``If my 6-year-old doesn't put his clothes in the hamper, I'm not going to whack him. He just won't get his clothes washed,'' said Peggy Hertzberg, 38, who teaches parenting classes at the YWCA. ``I think instead of banning spanking, parents need to learn different ways of disciplining and redirecting their children.''Exactly! Parents should know better. We cannot legislate common sense. This is one of the biggest problems I have with the liberal faction of the Democratic party. They think we are too stupid to make our own decisions. Therefore, they have to write directions for us into law.

    Lieber conceived the idea while chatting with a family friend and legal expert in children's issues worldwide. The friend, Thomas Nazario, said that while banning spanking might seem like a radical step for the United States, more than 10 European countries already do so. Sweden was the first, in 1979.

    Nazario said there's no good rationale for hitting a child under 3, so the state should draw a ``bright line'' in the law making it clear.

    ``Why do we allow parents to hit a little child and not someone their own size?'' asked Nazario, a professor at the University of San Francisco Law School. ``Everyone in the state is protected from physical violence, so where do you draw the line? To take a child and spank his little butt until he starts crying, some people would define that as physical violence.'' Size doesn't matter (That's what I'm told).

    It's unclear how a spanking ban would be enforced. Most slapping, after all, happens in the confines of a home, and most children up to age 3 aren't capable of reporting it. So, another bill will be passed. They will seek funding for new Abuse Call necklaces for children 3 and under. Anytime their parents "abuse" (see discipline) them. They press the button and the police come and take their parents away.

    Doctors, social workers and others who believe a child has been abused are required by law to report it to authorities. Nazario said he and Lieber are still debating whether to treat slapping the same way, or simply to encourage those who witness it to report it. But in either case, said Lieber, the law ``would allow people who view a beating to say, `Excuse me, that's against the law.' '' Again, common sense here. If I see someone swat their kid on the ass in the supermarket, I could give a frog's fat-ass. If they start beating the fuck out of them, that is different. As a human being we have a responsibility to intervine or at the very least report that. Why do they think we are so stupid that we need a law to tell us that?

    Experts in child psychology disagree over whether spanking is a legitimate or effective way for parents to discipline their children. Professor Robert Larzelere, who has studied child discipline for 30 years, said his research shows spanking is fine, as long as it's used sparingly and doesn't escalate to abuse.

    ``If it's used in a limited way,'' the Oklahoma State University professor said, ``it can be more effective than almost any other type of punishment.'' He added that children 18 months old or younger shouldn't be spanked at all, because they can't understand why it's happening.

    As for Lieber's proposal, the professor said: ``I think this proposal is not just a step too far, it's a leap too far. At least from a scientific perspective there really isn't any research to support the idea that this would make things better for children.'' Agreed. If the law passes, abusive parents will just wait until they get home to kick their kid's ass.

    But Lieber is optimistic that lawmakers will find her proposal hard to resist. For the record, she does not have children and says she was not slapped as a child. But she does have a cat named Snoop, which her veterinarian told her never to hit.

    ``And if you never hit a cat,'' Lieber said, ``you should never hit a kid.'' There you go. Perfect liberal-democrat logic for you. She has no kids but, knows more than all of us parents.
     
  2. Jurched

    Jurched Ask&YoullBeSorry

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    How dare you use my method of wise-assin' in between the lines of an article, Fah-Q!

    Typical how an "I know everything better than you" hyper-lesbo-lib from the Californian S.S.R. is going to codify things like ensuring a fuckin wild, out of control Helen Keller won't get some civilizin' corporal punishment.

    And as usual, Mzzzz. Barren-Womb/Barren-Vagina/Barren-Heart equates animal abuse with child abuse. Well what the fuck!

    First of all, an animal's life is eat or be eaten, so a cat being kicked is less of an issue than two toms having a show-down over territory. Is she gonna pass a law stating that cat fights are illegal, and the offending cat should be arrested?

    Perhaps, she at least should include a clause that says a child is not actually a cat... No, she might be discriminating against cats.

    shit! All this will do is increase the classic infiltrator-informant police state that usually happens whenever some group wants to bring about rapid social change.

    "Seen someone doing something naughty? Why, tell on them! Go ahead! Tell the social services bureau, so they can break up another family."

    Fuckers!

    Jurched
     
  3. SueNC

    SueNC Southern born, metal bred

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    well, i'll agree with the no 'punching' part of it.
    afterall, if somebody punches a baby under 3, it could kill them!
    did we really need a specific law for that?? doesnt CA have laws against child abuse that would cover pretty much all of that?
    if they do [and believe me, in CA, it wouldnt suprise me to find they dont have laws against child abuse], then how about making those laws more effective?

    as a parent, this sort of thing is something i take to heart. my kid is beyond spanking, at this point, however.

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  4. Alteredmindeath

    Alteredmindeath Wasteland Survivor

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    Simple solution= don't have kids.
     
  5. Jurched

    Jurched Ask&YoullBeSorry

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    You, my friend, are the reason why I am a strong supporter of post-term abortion.

    Jurched
     
  6. Hell_Awaits

    Hell_Awaits One more for the road

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    You made'em and you can break'em
     
  7. Evil Dead

    Evil Dead Hail to the King baby

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    Exactly!

    If I hadnt had my ass smacked when I was little, I would be twice the shitbag I am now. I learned from spankings = Dont run away from home, Dont swear at Mom or Dad, dont duck from a slap by Mom cuz Dad will smack your ass, BEHAVE IN PUBLIC OR GET AN ASS WHOOPING, treat people with respect OR GET MY ASS SPANKED, and my favorite..crying about shit I dont need at the grocery store or toy store, get a slapping. Guess what, I was a well behaved young kid, granted out of potential fear at first, it became good manners later.

    If I had a kid that pulled half the shit I see in public, id lock him away. I CANNOT STAND the crybabies wanting candy in the store. Hey guess what ,dont EVER give the kid fuckin candy and he wont get fat, and wont want it.

    And my other pet peeve, the parents who, as their kid runs wildly out of control says, in a monotone voice "stop that, come back here..etc":ill:
     
  8. fah-q

    fah-q Brusque

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    Jurched -You caught me. I totally copied your style.
    Sue-Your boy does look to be beyond spanking. Might I suggest the Cobra Clutch?
    Evil Dead- I could not agree more. I grew up under the rule of an Irish Catholic father. My whole family is a rough bunch. My father had no quams about adjusting my attitude via a whuppin'. To this day, I look back on it as something that helped me. In no way has it made me all moist or wanting to go on Oprah and cry about it.
     
  9. SueNC

    SueNC Southern born, metal bred

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    :p

    as of today, my little one has upped his record to 46 - 0 for the season and brought home a plaque for 'Most Outstanding Wrestler' of the tourney he was at.
    tough kid, he is.
     
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    Same here!!! If I hadn't been subject to Corporal Punishment at school, I might never have developed my love for "Le Vice Anglais". Hmmmm, yeah, slipperings, canings, spankings, hated them then, luuuuuuurve them now. (Although being spanked by a sweaty old Sports Master does nowt for me, I prefer a fully equipped Dominatrix). Oh, and I switch too, good to give AND take. Any young (or even not-so-young) ladies out there want to explore?
    Thought not. Worth a try though!
     

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