not that I have suecidal thoughts or anything... but I was kinda close when I was out driving this other night... but I was to afraid... or as my old teacher used to say: to brave(cus only those who are realy cowards are those who take theyre lifes, those who dont, are those who are brave enough to trye to work trough the hard times)..... anyways... i think i should tell you the reason, my girlfiend has left me :\ and I'm not taking it lightly... she was truly the only thing in my life that really matterd for me... First it seemd like it could be just some hard time for us... that we could get trough it... but now, all has ended... Well its ben some great 4 and a half month...
That's so sad to hear....... But I'm glad you're too brave, then! Keep being brave! *pats on your shoulder*
Someone who agrees with me.. I got flamed displaying that opinion earlier on.. hehe... well, that's fun too, but still
TRUE!!!! Life's a present & you shouldn't ever give it away! Suicide is weak! You'll surely come over it and good times will return!
Well, of course life is worth it. Man, there's ups and downs all over the place. And the lows are always bad. You shouldn't even think suicide, it's dumb. Even if you're lonely, it's no way to solve ANYTHING. And then she'll think it's all her fault and then she'll end her life. It'll just make so much confusion. Don't ever do that HellSpawn. You live a good life, and we all appreciate having you here.
Yeah, I'm with you there... Uhm, but I wrote something about this on the Opeth- forum just a couple of days ago to Belial... The things that is important to you is what life is worth living for. Life is what you make it of course, but sometimes everything seems so hopeless. It's a battle to get through the rough times, but for me it's worth it cause I know there will be some happy times afterwards. There is always a sollution, but do you believe there is one?
I know a few people in my time to have committed suicide...it achieved nothing but the reputation of that person to become thrown in the dirt.....suicide is selfishness and you wouldnt want to deprive anyone who cares for you of you....being around is taken for granted but its a selfless act that makes others around you happy....you will find someone again.....haha hard to believe thats coming from eh Blackspirit??
Hellspawn: Yes, I felt the suicidal tendencies boling in my very blood when the same thing happened in my own existance. Hell, life is never worth it. What is actually of value is how will you make yourself arise from the excrement from which you were in initially. The ever-lasting game of chances, oblivion, and discourage. Cheer up, mate! It does get better over time. Time... a word describing an eternal, or immediate lapse of events. It is in your hands wether to make it slow, or rapid. Now think of how you are going to kick the world in the ass this time, for that is the value of life. May strength be with you, mate. Cheers.
Time is a healer. Just try to see everything from the bright side, even if it is difficult. Suicide does not do anyone a favor. And, too bad what has happened, but well, there will be new happenings in the future. Try to look forward. I'm not saying you should forget the bad things that happened, but just don't get to deep into the sorrows of it!
thanx all... suicide has actully never really ben an option... its just that it flashed my mind when I ws out driving for 3 hours just thinking about her, and what i had losst... i got alot of friends that helps me trough this, did actually just come hom from one of the best frinds i have... he actually sacreficed work today just se he could help me think about other thing... but it was not that smart to see 'Detroit Rock City'... everything with that movie reminded me of her...
I just went through something that made me feel like shit. If you just think of it as something you learned, think of how it will help you in the future, and think of what you gained from being with her, it's not such a bad thing. Of course you're going to feel like shit for a while, but try to see the good in it (I know it's hard), and then try go move on. Suicide is a solution, but it's not the best one.
to the question , is life worth it , i awnser definetly not. hellspawn , it is very pathetic to ask yourself such question when such minors problems occur , see the real problems , those of the world and some real of yours as well if you have some.
Nowadays life ain't worth it... To much presure and quests... We can't be free it this world.. Quote: Some of us are born in the wrong century.. End Quote (Including me)
.....youll get over it...I know it burns deep inte the heart...but you must be strong...Im on that sad ways myself...but thinking on something similar to a goal helps...Im trying to reach that...that makes me continue walking on this ground...
yeah... Ill probably get over it... but I'm still hoping i can get her back.... does not look that likly though..
I think fresh air help's. A journey is needed. :Smokedev: Fighting the truth wil only prolong the pain. If it's over walk away. You will find another oasis, and look back and laugh.:Smokedev: *wishes best*
Suicide might very well be selfishness, but hell, HOW THE FUCK CAN YOU ASK A PERSON YOU 'CARE ABOUT' (even more love) TO GO THROUGH HELL JUST SO THAT _YOU_ WON'T BE _SAD_????????????? Now THAT's fucking SELFISH and that fucking pisses me off!!! You cannot live only for someone else, no matter how many it is. To live, you have to live for yourself. If you do that, you can live for someone else as well, but that's impossible if you don't at all live for yourself.
