When I get out of the dynamic of thinking of the person as someone special and start being open to the fact that there's other options. It's this big moment of wondering where the feelings came from if they were even there at all. I talked to this girl for almost 4 months and it felt pretty close, but then I thought I wanted us to be a thing and then we talked about it and she said I wanted too much and I found myself agreeing. I realized I didn't love her like I said I did and now we're taking a break but I have no interest in talking to her again. It just vanished.