You sound too good to be true. I think if everyone placed less importance on what society deemed appropriate, you would find more people with this attitude towards partnership. This is going to sound sappy, but love is really all one needs in life. If you have one who loves you and you love back, everything else can be dealt with. But again, I come back to my previous post; If one decides to have children, make sure it is with the right person, and that they are in it for the long term. For everyone's sake.