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Rumors and Goodbye

Discussion in 'GMD Social Forum' started by genocide roach, Sep 23, 2010.

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  1. genocide roach

    genocide roach DOOOOOOOOOOM

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    It has come to my attention that there is a lot of discussion and rumors about me going on and I’m going to stop them. They weren’t made solely by one person, so this isn’t an attack. Let’s just straighten everything out.

    First off, i left UM and the internet by choice. My wife didn’t make me. Certain things that have happened put me off. People have acted inappropriately towards my family (not just on here) and I wasn’t going to allow it to happen. Confronting people didn’t work so I left. That’s why you don’t see me and you won’t see me again. Most of you are cool, some aren’t, and some took it to a level that is creepy and nearly criminal.

    Now let’s clear things up:
    I’m not racist, and anyone with a brain in their head and has actually been here for all the years that I have known this. And yes, my wife is a Jew. So are my stepson and daughter. If I had a real problem with Jews do you think I would have dated, married, and had children with one? No, use your common sense. And by the way, Chanukah was awesome.

    Secondly, just because I flirted with someone doesn’t mean I actually liked them. What’s closer to the truth is that they disgust me or I just don’t care about them. I’ve learned that some people took it seriously. The fact of the matter is I had no real interest in sleeping with anyone on UM, or on the internet in general, nor have i. some people would like to say otherwise, but it’s a delusion. People who have had the luxury of seeing my actions in person would know that I never actually treated a real person that way. Now did my comments online go too far, sure. I probably created their delusions but it’s time to move on. Let it go or get help. I’ve never had a romantic attraction to anyone on here, I’ve never slept with anyone on here, and I’ve never dated anyone on here. Period.

    Additionally, my wife has never tried to get me to stop listening to metal. As a matter of fact, even when I try to distance myself from the scene, she tries to push me back in. she fell in love with a metal head and she loves me for who I am. Maybe someday I’ll follow her advice and come back to write for the site again, but who knows.

    Another rumor that has spawned is that we got married because she was pregnant. This is not true either. We got married out of love and weeks before a pregnancy test was even purchased.
    The only person I truly love, and have ever been in love with, is my wife (and our family of course). I’ve dedicated my life to my family. My wife and I have two great kids, we own our house, we have shared hobbies (too include a lot of music) that we love doing together and despite the annoyance of some people we are genuinely happy. I don’t want my life any other way.

    Last main issue: I moved away. I quit kastigation almost a year ago and we left the area. We left for our own personal reasons and quite frankly it’s none of anyone’s business why we left and where we ended up. If you worked for the site or any of the labels I worked with in the past, or even if you got my address from somewhere else, I don’t live there anymore, so don’t bother sending anything there.

    Smaller, less important, issues:
    *I don’t hate dogs, nor do I hate my wife for her dogs.
    *If you were talking to “me” on AIM or another IM service in the last year, it wasn’t me. I already know AIM was hacked and used by someone else, I don’t know if the other accounts were hacked.
    *I deleted my MySpace account for the same reason
    *If you’re trying to find me, don’t bother. I don’t want to be found. I’ve asked my wife not to relay any messages from anyone. I’ve asked kastigation to do that as well. If any of you try, they will be deleted.
    *Please don’t talk about issues that you aren’t involved in. that’s how rumors get started. People like to fill in the details on their own when they don’t know what’s going on and it should just stop.

    I’ve met some cool people here and heard a lot of great music. I’ve had a lot of great experiences because of the site (interviewing bands, MDF, etc.) but now it’s time for me to go. I just wanted to clear the air once and for all. If you hear anything else, it’s nothing more than rumor and shouldn’t be treated as fact.

    Now Andy, lock this up so we keep everything civil.

    Ryan
     
  2. False Joe

    False Joe Who cares.

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    Well, I appear to have missed a metric fuckton of drama, but you always seemed decent enough so I'll just say:

    Enjoy your life, and I wish you the best of luck.
     
  3. Pessimism

    Pessimism Endemic Vagabond

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    There are people on the internet that troll others irl? I had no idea!

    Either way, I'm glad I missed the drama fuckfest. Have a good one GR.

    Also, fuck most of the people on here; not for personal reasons, but just because.
     
  4. King Richard

    King Richard Against the wind...

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    It's a good thing I have no idea what he's talking about right?

    Take it easy bro.
     
  5. waif

    waif Member

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    This. What the fuck is he talking about? Especially with the hitting on someone on UM?
    That said, gR was always a cool guy and turned me on to some good music. Good luck to him and his family and all.
     
  6. Krigloch the Furious

    Krigloch the Furious Pants full of poo

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    hahahaha!
    awesome post. and welcome back dude!
     
  7. SentinelSlain

    SentinelSlain Suck my joined date.

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    I do believe it could be in reference to that blonde woman who had I HAVE PMS AND A GUN under her avatar. She stopped posting ages ago but gR was still friends with her and sometime spoke about her
     
  8. The Emptier

    The Emptier t3h b3aSt0rZ

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  9. Windie

    Windie oh okay.

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  10. Satanstoenail

    Satanstoenail My Larpstyle determines my Derpstyle

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    A couple of people asked about you, this was answered with something to the effect of "oh yeah gR got married and doesn't post here anymore". A few of us took the piss out of how you always signed your posts. That's it. There was no discussion or rumours. All this shit you've just spouted is news to probably 99% of the board.

    Very strange.
     
  11. The Emptier

    The Emptier t3h b3aSt0rZ

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    Badbird Never banned

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    Nice to see you back. Have a great life.


    ~Badbird~
     
  13. Kara-Shehr

    Kara-Shehr Member

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    I seriously joined this forum WAY too late. if this is what you guys have been up to. I missed all the action :bah:
     
  14. Caecius

    Caecius Doomed Traveler

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    lol @ leaving the internet
     
  15. mutantllama

    mutantllama Awesome custom title

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    Well goodluck man, sorry to say, but I'm disappointed you didn't sign it ~gR~. Oh well.
     
  16. The Heartbreak Kid

    The Heartbreak Kid Afterimage

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    SentinelSlain Suck my joined date.

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    oh it was grimny if that's who he's on about, remembered her username.
     
  18. Zephyrus

    Zephyrus Tyrants and Slaves

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    Having met this gentleman in person, and judging him to be a cool dude, I stand by everything he has said.

    Then again, I had no idea this kind of shit was going on.
     
  19. wandering_taco

    wandering_taco Minstrel of Woe

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    Yeah probably. Used to play halo with her, and him sometimes as well.
     
  20. The Ozzman

    The Ozzman Melted by feels

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    Tits or gtfo
     
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