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what do your friends think about you?

Discussion in 'Chat' started by KEVIN.DLL, Apr 18, 2014.

  1. KEVIN.DLL

    KEVIN.DLL New Metal Member

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    Hello
    in fact I do not really understand
    people, they are strange, they
    judge me badly because of my
    style of music they say i am weird , they do not want to talk
    to me. what about you ?
     
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    hairybumslapper New Metal Member

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    People who judge others based on musical preferences should not be called "friends".
     
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    KEVIN.DLL New Metal Member

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    true :)
     
  4. TheLover

    TheLover New Metal Member

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    My friends are all metalheads and they think my music is gross, cuz i listen to gore/br00tal death metal. And they think im a killer/rapist
     
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    Wearecomell New Metal Member

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    Same here mate. In time their thoughts about me changed but about the music i listen never. I stopped explaining them about why i like my music after i saw there is no point. Just loosing my time.
     
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    metalheadspirit New Metal Member

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    My friends think sometimes I'm crazy and they can't get that I listen to metal music
     
  7. HadesRagnazrath

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    They find me strange.
    It doesn't help that I'm mean to people, though.
     
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    tommythedudedervan New Metal Member

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    People are nice to me, but i'm gregarious, so it's relatively easy for me in social situations. Someone mentioned that anyone who would judge you on music genre is not a friend, and I highly agree.
     
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    People usually say i'm the person they most like to talk with, 'cause i'm really understanding and take real interest in people. On the other hand, that posture hasn't been making me very happy, so i've been choosing to whom i direct all the understanding and compassion i have learned in psychotherapy.
     
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    KEVIN.DLL New Metal Member

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    in my country , people don't know what's metal music .
     
  11. Metaphysical Drama

    Metaphysical Drama Time Traveler

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    Honestly?
    They don't give a fuck.
     
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    Few people who don't like metal judged me for a long time, but after I tried to explain them that they can't judge me for what I listen, they respect me - at least they try. Btw, if they knew me better or even took time to better know me, they would know that music hasn't the first place in my mind and in my heart.

    As I am also a Christian person, I am actually writing a book about my faith and my point of view of heavy metal cliché and wrong point of view of some judging Christians. Heavy metal is my job, even if it's as volunteer :headbang: I found my way in the music and I don't care of what they think about it :D
     

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