I completely feel you guys on this one. I've never really had any friends that were into music and if they were, they were never into the crazy shit music I'm into. For the past few years, I've been playing in cover bands with dudes that are 40+ and it can pay well, but I've always been doing my own things by myself on the side as much as I can. I would completely LOVE finding some other weirdos on my level to rock with. There are so many different elements that have to be in place for a band to truly be good and that makes it tough. You've gotta have people that play good, are dedicated, and get along with each other. I've always had to carry a ton of weight in all my bands as far as ENFORCING REHEARSAL, taking care of the gear, promoting marketing and getting gigs, and basically everything besides actually playing the show. Recently, I've started to just say "fuck it" and let the other band members make a fool of themselves when they don't show up on time or they're not practiced up and forget the songs.