I have a long time friend who i have been in a relationship off and on for quite some time... she's a girl, of course, and i'm a guy.... and we've been quite serious. I'm in love with her... madly....
She has been lying to me lately, and acting differently, not like herself.
She lies when she says she will call me back, and goes of with a guy friend of hers and has a group of friends who she hangs with.. (mostly guys, sometimes a few girls)
She said she couldn't trust me, that I was a NARC, and refused to tell me anything. I finally got her to finally tell me that she had 2 beers (never drank in the past) and tried weed... but said she would never do it again.. I got upset, but told her i just wanted the truth. A week later, she tells me about how she tried dope in the school bathroom, and how she did it some other times, and wants to do it again...
Her parents seperated (her stepdad left). She never really ever had a real dad... And she was depressed. I insisted on trying to make her feel better, and showing her I cared... Anyhow, I wanted her to trust me. I told her I wouldn't tell. She said, if I did, she would never talk to me ever again.
Well, she still said she didn't know if she could trust me.
After I inisisted over and over that I would not tell.
Now, I think I should let someone know... her mother....
She hasn't been acting like the girl I fell in love with.
The girl I know wouldn't have done all of this...
She says I need to stop trying to control her and let her make her own decisions... and stay out of her business... but I care so much about her. If anything happened to her, because of my inaction, I wouldn't be able to live with myself.
I talked to her on the phone today...
She called me an asshole, because she said I was tyring to BLACKMAIL her by saying that if she didn't see me, that I would tell her mom, and that in order for me not to "NARC", that i was forcing her to see me. I just told her "WHAT DO I HAVE TO LOSE? If I don't tell, you STILL won't see me again, you don't have time for me anymore..." So she says, "What do you have left to lose? You'll see... If you tell, I'll kill you!" Then this guy in the background says, "Tell him that I have Harassment charges on him, for calling my cell-phone..." So I say, "If you are pressing harassment charges on me, for just calling your cell, then maybe I should turn your ass in, you crack fiend..." And he gets on the phone suddenly and says, "YOU'RE DEAD BITCH!!" and hangs the phone up...
Damn....
I don't know what to do...
She has been lying to me lately, and acting differently, not like herself.
She lies when she says she will call me back, and goes of with a guy friend of hers and has a group of friends who she hangs with.. (mostly guys, sometimes a few girls)
She said she couldn't trust me, that I was a NARC, and refused to tell me anything. I finally got her to finally tell me that she had 2 beers (never drank in the past) and tried weed... but said she would never do it again.. I got upset, but told her i just wanted the truth. A week later, she tells me about how she tried dope in the school bathroom, and how she did it some other times, and wants to do it again...
Her parents seperated (her stepdad left). She never really ever had a real dad... And she was depressed. I insisted on trying to make her feel better, and showing her I cared... Anyhow, I wanted her to trust me. I told her I wouldn't tell. She said, if I did, she would never talk to me ever again.
Well, she still said she didn't know if she could trust me.
After I inisisted over and over that I would not tell.
Now, I think I should let someone know... her mother....
She hasn't been acting like the girl I fell in love with.
The girl I know wouldn't have done all of this...
She says I need to stop trying to control her and let her make her own decisions... and stay out of her business... but I care so much about her. If anything happened to her, because of my inaction, I wouldn't be able to live with myself.
I talked to her on the phone today...
She called me an asshole, because she said I was tyring to BLACKMAIL her by saying that if she didn't see me, that I would tell her mom, and that in order for me not to "NARC", that i was forcing her to see me. I just told her "WHAT DO I HAVE TO LOSE? If I don't tell, you STILL won't see me again, you don't have time for me anymore..." So she says, "What do you have left to lose? You'll see... If you tell, I'll kill you!" Then this guy in the background says, "Tell him that I have Harassment charges on him, for calling my cell-phone..." So I say, "If you are pressing harassment charges on me, for just calling your cell, then maybe I should turn your ass in, you crack fiend..." And he gets on the phone suddenly and says, "YOU'RE DEAD BITCH!!" and hangs the phone up...
Damn....
I don't know what to do...
